Me, Myself, & Your BS

Mrs. Sandy Change, Active Crusader

Mrs. Sandy Change, Active Crusader

And the BS continues. This time I am using the common terminology Bull$hit instead of Baby Struggles. Having a spouse, partner, lover in your life to share life with is an amazing thing. But sometimes their BS can really get you off course. If you allow it, their lies, bad habits, infidelity can really cause extreme emotional damage.

Instead of trying to fix what was really going on within me, within myself, I depended on them to empower me, to make me happy. Their BS really had me all messed up. So messed up, I started spending money on things to make up for what our relationship lacked or the attention I needed.

Thank God for the power of forgiveness and lots of counseling (mental and financial) to get us through the BS. We now have a stronger partnership and are committed to our love and the hope of a wonderful future.

Stay tuned for more in Episode 8: “WTF: WWJD - Where’s the Faith: What Would Jesus Do” to be posted on August 4, 2018.

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I Thought I Knew Him

Being married can be such a wonderful thing, so I’m not going to excite you with all the details. Unfortunately, I married a man-boy. Yes, I said it, a man-boy. He would turn out to be an amazing man one day, but he started off being a very immature, irresponsible, get on my last nerves boy who didn’t know any better.

The struggle was real and it caused a lot of drama early on. He wasn’t at fault for all of the financial woes we faced, but it sure would have helped to have a MAN that could have started us out on the right path. Yep, I am blaming him for everything. 😜